Aita for talking to a friend after he accused me of stealing?
By - WatchDragonball
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About a week ago I was hanging out on my friends house and drinking and I left at like 1 a.m. everything's fine. A few days later they're telling me that his mom's purse is missing I tell him I have no idea he believes me initially. About two days later his mom shows up at my house yelling accusing me in front of my neighbors and digging through my dumpster. After she leaves I messaged my friend Drew and ask why you didn't tell me his mom was coming or why he gave her my address. He tells me I needed to be caught off guard and accuses me of stealing tells me doesn't believe me I'm like I've known you for 13 years why would I steal from you he doesn't believe me tells me not to do it again. I'm flabbergasted and irritated because my girlfriend ended having an anxiety attack And it took a minute to calm her down she still think people might show up because the guy that his mom brought with her was looking around for cameras it seemed.
A few days later I get a threatening message telling me that I'm ghetto trash and I need to return what I stole from some guy named Rob. I message Andrews mom and I tell her not to escalate things or I would have to get people involved and I don't know what happened to her crap.
A few days pass we go to the police station there's nothing they can do about threats which i figured but my girl wanted us to do something and wss still on edge.
A week later- this morning Andrew message me telling me that I showed him my True Colors by threatening his mom and everyone thinks im this and that. I forward him the message from Rob and he asked why I didn't send it to him. I'm like because you weren't replying and you were going to believe what you wanted to anyways.
My girlfriend seen the messages and she was like why are you talking to him still he was disrespectful and had me feeling unsafe in my own home. I tell her the situation done with but she says it doesn't seem like it and that I can be too forgiving with a lot of my friends. I tell her she was right about a lot of them that's why I'm in therapy right now I'm not putting up with people's crap anymore. But it just turned into a big argument. Where she felt like she didn't want anybody knowing where we live anymore unless their family or and that if she had her own apartment she wouldn't have people over.
Am I the a****** for talking to Drew this morning after everything that's happened?
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